It's impossible for anyone who grew up in Nashville
during the period my relatives lived there not to talk about Claude and his
mother "Aunt Em." I'm attaching three items from different sources to give some
sense of this. The first is my grandfather's letter to my Uncle Howard on the
occasion of Claude's death:
CLAUDIE JONATHAN CROUCH
DECEMBER 7,1875 - MAY 3, 1962
Saturday, May 6, 1962
Dear Howard, Mary & the girls.
Am out at the Drop and thot that I'd better send you folks a line.
Feel that it’s a duty, plus a privilege. Will be mostly about Claudie,
as I feel that it should be. Will probably never write a lot about him
again. There's a lot to be said., and a lot more that could be- There’s
a heaviness in my heart over his passing, tho I have known from your
recent letters that Claudie was about ready to take his long and
dreamless sleep. Also knew that it would be a blessing and a relief to
him, and others who were near, but to me there's a trace of sadness that
others can't quite feel. There's no doubt that I've known Claudie longer
than any other living person. And that goes back as far as my memory
does. He was the only first cousin out of a possible 50 that I ever
really knew. Have had associations together over many long years. In my
boyhood I've gone with him to circus', shows, ball games, 4th of July
picnics, family gatherings, and the like. Remember once we rode our
bicycles to Lamar, to see the County Fair. He was a great hand to want
to go. Didn't matter where. Another time we were up there, to a big
political rally.
Claudie was a little bit the oddest person that ever grew up around
there and possibly the most aggravating one, tho you just could not get
mad at him, and stay that way. Had a lot of virtues. Was generous
hearted to a fault, and some folks took advantage of it, got in debt to
him, and stayed that way. He and Aunt Em had both helped me in many
ways. Locally Claudie knew more people and was known by more than could
be said about most anyone else. When you saw him once, you always
remembered him. A very unforgettable character. If all the stories and
jokes on him could be collected., they would make a big and interesting
book. Borned to be teased, he's had to absorb a lot of it, but along
these lines, he could both give and take. Just about teased every kid he
ever knew and when it came to giving nicknames, he was an artist. When
they told a story on him, and asked him about it, he would neither
confirm nor deny it. Probably say, "spec so, spec so." If he wanted you
to know that he doubted your story, it would be "goodness gracious," - 0
my," "Pshaw-" etc.
Almost as far back as I can remember, people were asking the
question, "' What's going to become of Claudie when his parents are
gone?" Well, he outlived them many years and some how managed to make
out, tho the last years were pretty rough, and made a rather dark
picture. I am so glad he didn't have to die in that squalor that he
lived in. Am glad for every kindness that was shown him in his last
days. Especially appreciate the many trips you made to see him, the
interest that you showed, and the comfort he felt by your presence. Was
away out here where I couldn't do a thing, but happy I could do it thru
a son and daughter-in-law. Feel that his last days were quite peaceful
and comfortable and that everything was done that could be done, Nice he
had an acquaintance for a nurse. Bet she was good. I can remember Mae
Williams as a nice looking young school teacher.
Do so regret that I can't be in Nashville tomorrow to attend the last
rites and hear the chant of the last requiem. I hope the preacher,
whoever he may be, will preach one of those old fashioned, personal kind
of a funeral sermon. Think it wouldbe fitting, in this case, The
best thing about Claudie was his deeply religious nature. He was really
a "Defender of the Faith," and never was ashamed of his religious
convictions, nor tried to hide them. Death had no fears for him, because
he was so positive it meant going home to "Papa and Mamma." Am sure it
was his one great consolation. Well in the last 60 years and more he has
been called upon to sing at so many funeral services that no one could
even make an estimate as to the amount of times. it's certain that no
one else could even remotely come close to his record.
His history and the history of Nashville would be closely interwoven.
Speaking of one, you'd almost have to think of the other. Grew up
together, and it's pretty hard to say which one outlived. Claudie is the
last of his generation, "the last of the Mohicans." There'll never be
anybody to call me "Meredie" any more. Often think of him calling his
Model T, "Old Henry." It was about the only sweetheart he ever had. Now,
I know there'll be a tremendous crowd at the funeral, and I hope it'll
be a beautiful day, and that they'll know what he wanted them to sing
over him, at the parting of the way. I don't feel quite like
taking up any other subject right now. Will ask Mom to write in some
news in the morning.
Meredith
The second
is a selection for Robert Thurman's remembrance of Nashville, Missouri:
Claude, called
Claudie or Snapper, Crouch was both postmaster and barber. Claude was naive
and gullible so he was on the receiving end of many practical jokes.
Problem is, he never caught on that he was being joked so I guess the joke
was really on the jokers. He drove a Model T Ford and whenever anything
went wrong, he called Roydon Coss who had a shop at Cossville, some five
miles away. He called Roydon so often that a song was made up:
Claudie had a Ford
machine
He filled it up with
kerosene
He cranked and cranked
But the darned thing
wouldn't start
Then it wouldn't wait til
he got in
And now he owns a pile of
tin
But every month he walks
right up and pays
Roydon Cross, Roydon Coss
So much down and so much
every certain day
It wouldn't wait til he
got in
And now he owns a pile of
tin
But every month he walks
right up and pays.
Ole Snapper thought it
was right funny. He was not a good barber and I wouldn't let him cut my
hair. He used hand held clippers but the trouble was they weren't sharp and
he didn't open them fully when he finished so he pulled hairs out by the
root. One time a salesman asked Uncle Elmer if Claude could give a shave
and Uncle Elmer, who was a practical joker, assured him there was no better
in the area (which was right -- because there was
no other barber in
the area). Well, when the salesman got settled in the chair, Snapper put an
apron around him. Then, he opened the back door and brought in a pail of
water that was partially frozen. Breaking the ice, Snapper took the soap
brush and tried to make some lather in that cold water which he put on the
man's face. Then, soaking a towel in the water, he wrapped it around the
man's face to soften the whiskers. The salesman said he more than likely
froze them. Finally, Claudie took his straight razor and scraped away. The
salesman came back to the store and said he didn't think Snapper had
sharpened that blade for a year. Needless to say, he didn't thank Uncle
Elmer for sending him over to Snapper.
The third is a newspaper article celebrating Aunt Em's 90th birthday:
EMMA CROUCH
JUNE 4
,
1849
NASHVILLE WOMAN REACHES NINETY
Mrs. Emma Crouch is the oldest person residing in Nashville vicinity,
as well as one of its oldest settlers, having come to this community
about sixty years ago, with her husband the late W. H. (Capt.) Crouch,
who was for many years merchant and postmaster of the village. She has
since resided here, having lived in the same house for over fifty
years. Sunday, June fourth, being her ninetieth birthday, a dinner
was planned in her honor and her many friends invited. Despite her
advanced years she is in good physical health and still keeps house for
herself and son Claude, the present postmaster.
Aunt Em, as she is affectionately known by everybody, perhaps has the
distinction of being one of the most beloved persons ever living in
these parts. In fact to know her is to regard her as a dear friend, and
her unselfish and generous spirit toward all mankind has been her
outstanding virtue. All who visit her go away chuckling over her good
humor and ready wit. Of late years she has been troubled with failing
eyesight, which is a great burden to her as she formerly was a. great
hand to read and to write letters, keeping up correspondence with so
many who had moved to distant lands. People returning here on visits to
their old homeland never fail to call on her, and Nashville folk meeting
friends elsewhere are invariable asked, "Well, how is Aunt Em?" A member
of the Christian church since early childhood, people have marveled at
her faith, and all will hope that her monumental life will be spared to
our community for many more years, -- Contributed
Mary wrote some
remembrances of Em and Claude
If you have information or photographs concerning the
descendants of Stephen Douglas Crouch or the Barton County village of Nashville,
Missouri, please contact me. I share my pictures and I return any photographs
entrusted to me promptly.